How To Attract Beautiful Women – The Secret Is Reviled
Some people would say that money and power is the only thing a man needs to attract beautiful women and they would probably be (in most cases) right.
However, that doesn’t mean that beautiful women can’t be attracted by other things and techniques as well.
The great news for all of us who are not famous, rich and powerful is that any beautiful woman can be seduced in more than one way.
Attracting a beautiful woman can seem difficult but if you are self-confident, original and a great communicator than you have nothing to worry about.
On the other side, if you are not, but you do appear self-confident, original and eloquent you also have little to worry about when attracting beautiful women. However, you should be concerned about keeping them interested.
Finally, if you have low self-esteem, are not original and have no clue how to talk to a beautiful woman you have come to the right place.
Self-Confidence
First of all you need to fully understand the difference between self-confidence and cockiness.
A self-confident man believes in himself and his abilities. He respects himself but he also respects others and he acts as a mature person when in company of others.
A cocky man is overly self-confident and arrogant. He thinks he is the best and he acts like an immature teenager that is rocked by the testosterone.
Needless to say, you want to leave the “self-confident guy” impression on her; NOT the “cocky/immature/arrogant/irritating prick” impression.
Okay, now that we have gotten that out of the way let’s get back to the importance of self-confidence.
The level of self-confidence speaks volumes about a man to a woman, and without getting into too many details most important thing you should know is that the more self-confident you are the more successful you’ll be with beautiful women.
The million dollar question is: how to become a self-confident person?
The distance from a low self-esteem to a high self-esteem can be surprisingly short in some cases, but usually it is quite long and bumpy.
The two key factors that shape our self-esteem are:
1.How others have treated us during our developmental period ( childhood and puberty)
2.What others told us about ourselves during our childhood and puberty
Sure, it is important how people treat us as adults but the fact is that the level of our self-confidence (that has been shaped during our development period) greatly influences the way people perceive us as adults; thus the way they treat us.
The good news is that if you lack self-confidence there are many things you can do to improve your self-esteem, and one of them is to get yourself the most beautiful girl in town!
Yes, you can do it; even if you have a low self-esteem.
How?
Simply really, just remember that the most important thing is to appear self-confident in order to attract beautiful women. No one says you have to actually be self-confident.
Now, the kicker is that winning over and being with a beautiful woman can tremendously boost the man’s self-esteem. In other words, if you have low self-esteem a beautiful woman is an important part of your therapy. Seriously.
You see, I’m one of those psychologists that don’t believe in sitting and talking, but rather in doing and then talking about it.
Anyways, back to attracting beautiful women…
Originality
Anyone that is original will attract attention. However, not all attention is good or positive. For example, if you paint your skin in purple and walk into the club every person would stare at you, including the beauties, but that’s not really the kind on an attention you want.
What you want is to walk into the restaurant, club or a coffee shop and have her think to herself: “This guy is interesting… I’d love to get to know him…”
The first impression is very important and the good news is that people take only about 1/10th of a second to form a first impression about a person. Therefore, the way you dress and carry yourself is crucial when attracting beautiful women.
1/10th of a second is a very short period of time therefore it is very important that you dress well but original as well. You have to stand out of the crowd in order for her to notice you, but without making a fool of yourself.
Note: originality plays a very important part during the whole process of winning a beautiful girl over and not just when making the first impression.
Good Communication Skills
An original, interesting and engaging conversation has the omnipotent power when attracting women. If you have excellent conversation skills than there is no woman that can resist you and you should stop reading this dating guide.
If however, you feel that your communication skills can improve than you are at the right place because in this guide you will find many conversation tips and techniques that will be useful to you in many ways; including seducing a beautiful woman.
Always remember that true beauty comes from within.